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Wishing you a sparkling 2011

Published December 31, 2010 by Cheryl

“People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.”

Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

Winter is here and the darkness is all around us. Personally, I love the long nights and yes the lights of the holiday season. The long nights encourage me to slow down and really take care of myself. It is one of the real gifts of the holiday season — the time to relax, to read, to sleep in, to sit and knit . . . all of which nourishes the light from within, that glow. I am curious: how we can we live both, the fun, sparkles and playfulness combined with the glow of joy and fulfillment. Like the fireworks of New Years Eve some things that shine and sparkle so bright are gone in a flash.  Do you wonder too how to maintain the joy, the sparkle and the glow from within?

My grandmother, who took care of me a good deal, used to tell me that I was so happy as a baby that I sparkled and shined, like there was a light within me that glowed bright. It has been a long time since I was that baby, but my friends tell me that I still sparkle and glow. The truth is: when I am nourished and truly happy, like right now, I can feel the sparkle. It is almost like a happiness high, that natural high that we joked about in the 60′s and 70′s :) !

After a week of gentleness and flow, I am in full, sparkling glow. I would like to pass this marvelous energy on to you as you read this. Breathe it in and relax into sparkling glow. For 2011, may you find ongoing joy and delight, peace and prosperity and love beyond measure. May your own ‘sparkle-self’ glow with all that you desire!

Blessings and love!

Faerie Tales I

Published December 27, 2010 by Cheryl

“If you want your children to be intelligent, read them fairy tales. If you want them to be more intelligent, read them more fairy tales.”

Albert Einstein

Would you believe that ‘once upon a time’ may not be so long ago? We live in a five-sense world, and sometimes things happen that just don’t quite fit within our seeing, smelling, hearing, touching and tasting. Yes, we often had/have a sense that there were faeries about. The thing is we are logical people, well educated and considered quite sensible; and still, things just seem to happen around our home. For example, things seem to disappear, then rea-appear sometime later. One of our first clear instances happened with a favorite garden shears. I brought in from the garden and before I got it back into the closet it disappeared. We looked everywhere; it was nowhere to be found. About a week later it turned up in plain sight on the counter. (There are only two of us living here and neither put it there.)

A more recent tale: our faeries love sparkly things. We have learned to careful with our diamond rings. Several years ago the whole crown broke off a diamond ring so we are carefull with them. We began to leave our rings safe on the jewelry chest while out gardening. Then, a ring disappeared from this safe and secure spot, obviously not so safe and secure. Fairly recently, we were putting in a new flower bed and there it was –  sticking up from a clump of dirt, just like a jeweler’s box, was the ’lost’ diamond ring.    

Is all of life logical and scientific with precise cause and effect or maybe there is just a bit of magic going on. We cannot see a link to cause and effect, nor can we see these marvelous creatures. Maybe sometimes we just need to expand our  minds and our expectations beyond the five senses, science and logic. What do you think?

Faerie Tales — an introduction

Published December 26, 2010 by Cheryl

“I believe in everything until it’s disproved.  So I believe in fairies, the myths, dragons.  It all exists, even if it’s in your mind.  Who’s to say that dreams and nightmares aren’t as real as the here and now?”

  ~John Lennon

What happens when the faeries live in, and around, your house? Once upon a time, almost 15 years ago, we were looking to buy a home on a lake that was close to town. We spotted ‘the one’: older, in need of some loving care and on a small lake. From the very beginning, there was something a bit magical about the place, nothing we could put our finger on exactly, but it was there. It is like there is an unmistakable force.  When family or friends visit, they often comment on how it feels here – fun, playful, energetic, gentle, safe, boundless, sparkling, loving  .  .  .   

When first working with the landscape architect, we asked her for a feeling of sanctuary and refuge for us, for the animals and for the faeries. Since that time, we include the faeries when we talk with service people and visitors. They may think we are talking ‘tongue in cheek’; but then again, are we?

Faerie Tales is a remembering of our adventures with the faeries, including some faerie lore I have picked up along the way. Join us for Faerie Tales as our adventure unfolds.

 

Birthday Afterglow

Published December 24, 2010 by Cheryl

“We should all start to live before we get too old. Fear is stupid. So are regrets.”

Marilyn Monroe

 After another wonderful birthday, I am still basking in the afterglow. From my perspective, birthdays are to be totally enjoyed and celebrated. It is a day all about me — what a treat! This is a relatively new perspective and I love it!!! Growing up, ‘all about me’ was selfish, or self-centered. Not anymore, now, it is a great thing especially on my birthday; a day to have fun, to play and to relish in exactly what I want to do, to eat and who I want to share it all with. Life is so good!

One of my favorite cards reads something like “Cheryl is willing to accept that she creates her own reality . . . except for some of the parts where she can’t help but wonder what the hell she was thinking.”   As I grow older, we all grow older really, I am becoming more and more aware that I really want to live fully, wide open actually. Yes, it is about creating our own reality, taking some risk, making some goofy decisions, learning along the way and still going for it the next time. 

That same old box has sprung wide open. This next year is bound to be a doozy, filled with fun, laughter, lots of joy, connecting with people and sharing the positive life while moving into even greater personal and professional success. what a gift life is.  Come on in and enjoy the fun!

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